What turns 14 year old boys on?

I’m going over my boyfriend’s house this afternoon, and work on a project, but I also want to turn him on. How do I do that?

41 Answers

  1. OMFG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    okay, okay i stopped laughing

    alright i am boy who turns 15 in a couple of months so i think i can answer this question best. there are multiple things i will make a SHORT list.

    1:okay hold him standing up with your arms around his waist or neck and his arms in the opposite position, then have like half a foot away from each other so you stomachs are NOT touching, then kiss him but when you do lick his lips WHILE you are kissing just stick you tongue out and through, then put your forehead to his and push your lips away and have your head looking down at his lower chest/stomach BUT your eyes looking right up ate him kinda like rolling your eyes back just not so far and then to top it all, bite your lip. that is when the dirty thoughts enter his mind.

    2:stretch out while he is sitting up straight and put you head in his lap looking up at him and eye your finger as you run it UP starting at his lower stomach up to the top of his chest right down the center slowly and then back down slowly then to your mouth, and that is when he will drool.

    3:sit in his lap and then do the kiss from number 1 and when you pull away bite his lower lip and pull away a little and shake your head back and forth while your doing but shake SLOWLY and then let go, then pull his head to your chest NOT INTO but on your chest make sure its the side of his head though, and then let his mind wander.

    these are the only ones i can say here if you want more or get bored with them just email me at [email protected] all lower case, and with the way MY girlfriend is i never run out of these i promise.

  2. Everything turns on 14 year old boys as they have no control over “it” but remember you are 14 and sex is still illegal for you, Enjoy being a teenager, you have the rest of your life to experience all these other things, Don’t rush into it

  3. Im 13 and Never in my life have I had a set bed time, but from ages 6 to 11 I went to bed at 12, or 1am but when I started middle school I realized that I need more sleep, cuz im waking up earlier and I have have more work to do now, so now I usually try and get to bed by 10. I wake up at 6:50am. On weekends I dont sleep, If I do go to bed its not until 4 -5am

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    Well I usually go to bed on school nights 9-10 PM because I like my sleep, always have. If I’m getting up 5:30 am every morning, I want my beauty sleep! Weekends and vacations I just go to bed when I’m tired. If your son is responsible then he’ll just go to bed when he’s tired. So a bed time shouldn’t really matter. I think the last time I had a bed time was 4th grade….

  5. At 14? Anything really. Just a little touching and you’ve done it. Hormones at that age for a guy are going MAD CRAZY and he’ll react to anything from most anyone or anything, in fact.

    But honestly 14 is far too young to be doing that, because if you do it too early you’re horribly skew your perception of sex, intimacy and pleasure in the future. If you turn him on he’ll be crazy about you, but please, don’t let him touch you, don’t take any of your clothes off or anything, save it. SAVE it, save it, save it. TRUST me, you’ll be glad you did.

    In this world, girls are the gem, the prize, and as a girl, you’re trying to find the guy who will work the hardest to please you and make you happy.

  6. Well play hard to get, I actually don’t know why they like that but do it anyway.

    Lean over him for a pencil or something.

    Wear shorts or a skirt and a nice top but don’t make it obvious like!

    Good luck!

  7. Don’t tease the boys at that age. They are already sexually frustrated. They don’t need help from you. Just by showing up, I guarantee he’ll be turned on.

  8. What DOESN’T turn 14 year old boys on?

  9. maybe straighten your hair and wear a tight fitting top and skinny leg jeans – with bonds, if you have that brand – i dont know what country your from so yeah. i’m also 14, goodluck 🙂

  10. Watch this video explaining how to use just 3 texts to turn any woman on, and get her out on a date: http://www.magneticmsg.com/ it works, it’s crazy what basic psychology can do.

    I’ve used this on a few hotties and it worked everytime. Thing is I don’t look that good. Crazy..

Relevant information

What do teenage guys find attractive? How to turn a boy on is a mystery of the ages, at least for those trying to attract them. Keeping in mind every teenage guy has his own preferences, there are indeed some characteristics – both physical and otherwise – that many teens like. There are also some big turn offs as well.

What Turns a Teenage Guy on the Most, Really?

As teenagers grow, they begin to decide what they want to find in a mate. An idea of a teenage boy’s perfect girl will begin to form, at least mentally, as he combines the physical, emotional and personality traits he likes the most into his ideal girl. There is no “one-size-fits-all” when it comes to turn-ons, but this list covers a large percentage of the teenage guy population. Young love begins with a turn on.

Pretty Faces

Girls with pretty faces are what turn teenage guys on the most; lovely faces are what teenage guys find attractive. Learning the right makeup application, therefore, is important. Guys complain about girls who wear too much makeup or none at all. A medium make up look that is not too over the top, is what teenage boys like.

Body Confidence Is a Boy’s Turn-On

Guys do not expect perfection, but they do like being around a girl with confidence. This is especially true when she has her own body confidence. Teenage guys are already struggling with their own body images; they like to see a potential mate be comfortable with her body. Avoid complaining about the size of your butt or your lack of breasts in front of a teenage guy that you are interested in.


As teenagers’ bodies begin to develop, they will begin experimenting, socially, with the opposite sex. This experimentation is normal and helps young people understand how to flirt with the opposite sex. Flirting, like winking, smiling and flirty actions, like rubbing his shoulders (with consent), are favorite turn-ons for teen boys. Flirt by being friendly, without being too available.


Besides being visual creatures, teenage guys like perfumes that smell good. Choose perfumes that are not too flowery or posh. Stick with scents that have pheromones or musk in the ingredients. The best advice for teenage girls wanting to turn a guy on with perfume is to experiment. Try new scents until you get the results you are after.

Trendy Clothing

Guys like seeing girls wear trendy clothing. Clothing that shows the newest styles and fashion will impress him and turn him on. Her sense of style can add to his interest in her.

What Turns Him Off the Most

Teenage guys have definite turn offs too. Avoid turning him off by knowing what he does not like. Any time you deviate from treating him with respect – even if you’re trying to be funny – it’s going to backfire.

Being Mocked

Nobody enjoys mockery, but teenage boys are especially susceptible to mockery. When an embarrassing situation occurs, avoid making a spectacle out of his bad moment. Draw everyone’s attention to something else while he makes an exit.

Being Locked Down

Though some teen guys do enjoy having a partner who makes bold claims of their relationship, some boys are uncomfortable with a partner who tries to control their every move – and rightfully so. Teen boys don’t want to be controlled by anyone, especially by someone they can choose to walk away from.


On a list of pet peeves for guys you will always see “whining.” Skip the whining around the guy you like. At first, he may pretend to be amused, but after that, it is just plain embarrassing. No guy wants to date someone who cannot stop whining.

Attractions Can Vary

Each guy is an individual with different likes and turn-ons. If you can get to know him as a person before trying to flirt with him, it’s likely you will already understand what he finds attractive and what he doesn’t like at all.

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